Sinan Çankaya & Omar El Akkad (online) - cultural commemoration and Western hypocrisy
What is it like to grow up in a country that preaches freedom and equality, but then systematically treats you and your existence as an exception? And what does it do to your trust in a society when it collectively looks away while a horrific history repeats itself? What if you slowly realize that the heroic “never again” does not apply to people who look like you?
In this program, writer and cultural anthropologist Sinan Çankaya (Nijmegen, 1982) and author and journalist Omar El Akkad (Egypt, 1982) discuss memory culture, hypocrisy, and what it feels like to live (and mourn) as a non-white man in a white society. About the disillusionment of integration and the empty promises made by Western societies.
This year, Sinan Çankaya published the poignant essay Galmende geschiedenissen (2025), in which he questions Dutch remembrance culture surrounding the Second World War. Why is the Dutch approach to remembrance so selective, so moralistic, and above all so indifferent when it comes to victims other than “our own”? Why is it so difficult to even mention the genocide of the Palestinians in this country, let alone commemorate it? The war in Gaza shifted his worldview to such an extent that he felt compelled to write this book, according to Çankaya in a much-discussed interview with NRC, in which he declared the entire concept of integration dead. “Integration is a task that has been placed solely on the shoulders of migrants. [...] The superior Dutch are supposedly civilized, while the rest still have to prove that they belong.”
Canadian-Egyptian writer Omar El Akkad also examines this hypocrisy, self-image, and double standards of the West in his recently published book One Day, Everyone Will Have Always Been Against This (2025). El Akkad based his debut on his life as an immigrant, war reporter, and father, and explores, among other things, what it means to speak out about Gaza “from the middle of empire.” He paints a picture of moral numbness, of indignation from a safe distance, and shows us how the language of universal human rights seems to be becoming less and less universal. El Akkad will join this conversation via a livestream.
Both writers are familiar with the insider-outsider perspective: they grew up in the West, speak the language, know the customs, and yet repeatedly encounter the dichotomy of who belongs and who does not. And both write incisively about the hypocrisy surrounding Gaza, the “pecking order of suffering” that war presents us with. Their work is a necessary mirror on racism and colonialism, and we hope this conversation will be too. Because can you really be ‘at home’ somewhere if ‘home’ keeps turning away from you and refuses to talk about the pain that is dying on your lips?